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Oct 5, 2017

One of the reasons why people get confused or frustrated with flirting is that they tend to get lost in the weeds when they want to learn how to flirt with someone.  We often misunderstand how flirting works or don't know how to do it the right way.

Flirting isn’t about negging and you’re delivering backhanded “compliments” to lower somebody’s social value compared to yours and making them crave your approval. It's not about showering someone with complements, or being sexual or getting them to think about or talk about sex. Flirting is all about the connection you build with someone and making that bond with their real, authentic self. 

There’s no one way to flirt, but there are some best practices when it comes to flirting, things that are fundamental to it no matter what your personal flirting style is. So this week we're going to talk about the do's and don'ts that make up the best practices and core components of successful flirting.

Show Highlights:

  • Understanding The Four Keys to Flirting Success
  • The Proper Way To Utilize Flirting
  • Why Negging, Teasing and Bantering Can Backfire... Badly
  • The Value of The Unexpected
  • Where, When and How To Flirt

...and so much more.

Related Links:

Instant Charisma

How to Use Humor In Your Flirting

Building Physical Chemistry 

Chemistry and Emotional Engagement

How To Banter (Without Being An Asshole)

Finding Your Flirting Style 

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