Jan 24, 2018
One of the uncomfortable truths about dating is simple: you're going to get rejected. No body - not Chris Evans, not Idris Elba, not Ryan Gosling or Mahershala Ali goes 5 for 5. The simple truth of the matter is that no matter how good looking you may be, how charming you are or how famous or rich you may...
Jan 17, 2018
(Content Warning: Sexual Assault)
Normally I don’t do too many episodes about current events in the news; I tend to save that for the blog. But recently I had a lot to say on Twitter about the situation with Aziz Ansari and as it turns out, I’ve got more to say. The issue with Ansari has less to do with "bad dates"...
Jan 10, 2018
This week we’re going to talk about one of the most common questions I get - where do you meet amazing, intelligent and ambitious women… if you hate bars or clubs?
That’s a fair question. Bars and clubs have become synonymous with “where to meet women”, which is a little unfortunate. While bars are definitely...
Jan 4, 2018
The more conventionally attractive somebody is, the more social and cultural value we tend to ascribe to them. And the more social value we give them, the more we define our own value in our ability to “win” them.
This is never more evident than when people - mostly guys, but some women too - rank others people...