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May 4, 2017

Many people deal with an issue known as "Oneitis" - the overwhelming belief that a person- usually a woman, but not always - is The One, with a capital-T and a capital O. The defining issue with Oneitis isn’t the relationship so much as the unwillingness to let that relationship go. Oneitis occurs when that one person is so special and so amazing that you can’t - or won’t - move on and start letting yourself fall for somebody else. As a result, you end up causing yourself no small amount of unnecessary pain... and hold yourself back from relationships that would make you happy and fulfilled. 

But if you want to get over Oneitis, you have to deal with the cause, not the symptom. Until you deal with the roots of why people get stuck on their One, you won't be able to let them go.

Show Highlights: 

  • What sufferers of Oneitis have in common
  • Why Oneitis causes so much needless pain and suffering
  • Why 500 Days of Summer is the greatest example of what not to do
  • The source of Oneitis
  • Why this one quirk of psychology makes it so hard to get over somebody

... and so much more.

Related Links:

Do You Suffer From Oneitis?

Where Do You Get Your Validation?

Leveling Up: Developing an Abundance Mentality

Eliminating Neediness

How To Get Over Her

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