Feb 9, 2017
I want to talk to you about one quick thing that you can do that will boost your personal charisma almost instantly.
And that is: I want you to stop apologizing.
Part of what makes people
charismatic is that sense of conviction and authenticity. We all
crave certainty - it’s a magnetic quality because
uncertainty causes literal discomfort. If we ourselves
can’t be certain about something, we take reassurance from people
who are. The more conviction and certainty you have, the
more people are drawn to you.
But you can’t have that when you abandon your own power through
apologizing needlessly. So you need to learn to harness the power
of not apologizing for how you feel or what you
love.
Show Highlights:
- How so many men undercut their own desirability
- Why certainty is so appealing
- The power of being direct
- The difference between asking and trying to convince others
and so much more.
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