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Nov 16, 2017

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Pop quiz, hot shot: you’ve just made eye contact with an incredible woman across the room. She seems to be giving you the “come hither” look. What do you do. WHAT DO YOU DO?

Many people... won't actually do anything. They may be paralyzed by fear of rejection, of screwing things up or simply not knowing what to say. On the other hand, some men do manage to make that approach... but now they're stuck in a conversation that's going absolutely nowhere, feeling their chance to ask her out drain away.

You don't want to make that same mistake. This is why you want to understand and master the dynamics and structure of a successful approach. Whether you're meeting someone at a cafe or the bar, the structure of an approach remains the same - simple and adaptable to any flirting style and any location. It's time to learn how to start that conversation and make it work to your advantage.

Show Highlights:

  • The structure to a successful approach
  • Why guys overthink trying to talk to women
  • The number one mistake men make in making an approach
  • How to direct a conversation to the topics you want to reach
  • How to create that feeling of immediate, intense emotional chemistry

...and so much more.

Related Links:

The Basics of A Cold Approach

Approaching Women During The Day

5 Signs Women Want You To Talk To Them

Creating Emotional Chemistry

How To Avoid Getting Ghosted


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