Preview Mode Links will not work in preview mode

Paging Dr. NerdLove

Sep 21, 2017

Stop me if you’ve heard this one before: you’re talking with someone you’re into, and you think it’s going well when she says the dread phrase: “I wish I could meet a nice guy like you.”

And you’re thinking to yourself “Well… I’m nice! Why aren’t you dating me?”

But for all the times you hear a woman say she wishes she could find a nice guy, you also hear about how nice guys are THE WORST. And during all this, you see her going off and dating a complete asshole. So clearly she’s lying about what she wants, right?

Wrong. So, what’s the deal here?

Well… a lot of it is about understanding the nature of relationships and how attraction works. And the rest… is about who’s the real jerk here.

Show Highlights:

  • What women really mean when they say they want to find a nice guy
  • Why assholes have the advantage over nice guys
  • The reason why "nice" isn't enough
  • The secret to why women hate Nice Guys

...and so much more.

Related Links:

The Problem with "Nice Guys"

What Bad Boys Know That Nice Guys Don't

Being "Nice" Isn't Good Enough

The Science of Nice Guys and Assholes

Entitlement, Nerds and Neanderthals


Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube.

Like the podcast? Consider becoming a Dr. NerdLove patron at

Want more dating advice? Check out my books at