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Dec 9, 2020

Let's be honest: dating can be a trial. For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner.

Today, I want to give you all some advice I wish I had gotten back when I first started dating. Because, if you’re checking out these episodes, then the odds are good that, frankly, you think dating… kinda sucks. And in fairness: you’re not entirely wrong. Dating for men can be kind of awful. But not for the reasons you might think.
In fact, the biggest reason why dating can suck is because of how much harder we men make it for OURSELVES and in the process, make ourselves miserable… even when we think we’re doing everything right. 

So let's look at 5 reasons why dating can SUCK for men… and what you can do about it.


  • Why men have a conflict mentality when it comes to dating
  • The secret to passing women's "tests"
  • Why so much of what you believe about women, dating and sex is WRONG.
  • How guys get caught in a cycle of dating failure
  • Why you're taking the wrong advice about how to meet women

...and so much more.


How To Meet Women, Effortlessly

What Men Need To Know About Attraction

The Truth About Casual Sex (And Where To Get It) 

This Is Why Online Dating Sucks

The Fear of Being Invisible 

The Love Gap 

Faking It: The Lies Women Tell About Sex and the Truths They Reveal

What Do Women Want: Adventures in the Science of Female Sexual Desire 

Simplified Dating

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