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Apr 27, 2017

A lot of people tend to let shyness get in the way of their social success - especially at times when they would long to meet other people. Fortunately, shyness isn’t an immutable or permanent part of who you are. While it feels like it’s a core part of your personality, shyness is something that you can...


Apr 20, 2017

Attractiveness and good looks are very, very different things. Somebody can be good looking - even beautiful -  without being attractive. At the same time, people can be incredibly attractive while not being even vaguely good looking. Some of the most famous lovers in history were barely a step up from "looks like a...


Apr 13, 2017

People treat confidence like a binary: either you have it, or you don’t. The problem with this outlook is that it reduces confidence to a catch-22; if you don’t have confidence, then you need to build it, but you can’t do the things that let you build it if you don’t have confidence in the first place.

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Apr 6, 2017

How often have you put yourself in the position where you keep waiting for things to be perfect before you were willing to take a risk. You want to ask someone out but the moment wasn't right or she was with her friends or you weren't sure she liked you so you wanted to wait and make sure. And so you wait. And wait. And...