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Feb 23, 2017

One of the most common questions I get when it comes to self-improvement is: “how much should I change?” Or, more accurately: the actual, underlying question is “why should I change at all?”

When we've heard “just be yourself” over and over again, at what point does changing go from being fickle...


Feb 16, 2017

Everyone deals with social anxiety to one degree or another. We’re all worried that we’re going to humiliate ourselves, say the wrong thing and otherwise become a social pariah because we’ve managed to alienate people by saying something so unbelievably awful that we can never be forgiven or show our face in...


Feb 9, 2017

I want to talk to you about one quick thing that you can do that will boost your personal charisma almost instantly.

And that is: I want you to stop apologizing. 

Part of what makes people charismatic is that sense of conviction and authenticity. We all crave certainty - it’s a magnetic quality because uncertainty...


Feb 2, 2017

Most of the time, when we talk about meeting women, we tend to fall back on the same tired ideas - bars, clubs and online dating. And to be fair: there’s a lot of value to be had at using any or all of these venues to meet women, but for many people, the club or local single's bar is going to be a no-go. Most...